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EHCP, SEND, ,SEND support in schools, school leadership, SENCO, school attendance, emotionally based school avoidance, inclusive education, Multi-Academy Trusts, parent-school trust, education policy, school budgets, SEND support in schools Naomi Withers EHCP, SEND, ,SEND support in schools, school leadership, SENCO, school attendance, emotionally based school avoidance, inclusive education, Multi-Academy Trusts, parent-school trust, education policy, school budgets, SEND support in schools Naomi Withers

Families Are Not Fighting for Paperwork. They Are Fighting for Certainty.

Families may be pursuing EHCPs not because they want more paperwork, but because statutory plans offer certainty, accountability and continuity. This article explores what rising EHCP demand means for school and trust leaders, the hidden cost of repeated SEND pressure, and how practical pathway design can strengthen support while protecting staff capacity and budget.

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Your child isn't refusing school. They may be overloaded.

If your child won't go to school, melts down most mornings or falls apart after school, it may be school distress — not refusal.

With emotionally based school avoidance (EBSA) and persistent absence at record levels in 2026, here's what the figures really mean for neurodivergent children and their families and how to build a calmer bridge for the hardest moment of your day.

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