SENSE™️ Friends is a calm, practical community for parents, carers, schools, community partners and professionals who are tired of the same problems repeating.
If you are searching for help with school refusal, school anxiety, after-school meltdowns, child anxiety, emotional dysregulation, neurodivergent parenting, parent-school communication or family stress, SENSE Friends gives you simple support in plain English.
morning battles
after-school meltdowns or restraint collapse
bedtime stress
school refusal, school avoidance or attendance worry
child anxiety or teen anxiety
big emotions
shouting, shutdowns or constant conflict
screen-time arguments
sibling tension
parent guilt
People are not failing.
When the same problems keep happening, people need more than advice
SENSE Friends is for people and settings facing repeated emotional pressure points.
That might look like:
families feeling judged or misunderstood
school and home feeling disconnected
staff unsure what to say when emotions are high
parent-school communication becoming tense
pastoral teams holding the same issues again and again
community groups seeing families struggle but not knowing how to help
wondering, “Why does this keep happening?”
Children are not broken.
Parents, carers, staff and communities may just need calmer language, clearer patterns and practical support.
What is SENSE™️ Friends?
SENSE Friends is a warm community for people who want simple, real-life support with big emotions, family pressure, school stress and repeated hard moments.
It is for:
parents and carers
families
schools and MATs
SENDCos, pastoral leads and inclusion teams
community groups
family support workers
local organisations
professionals who support children, young people or families
SENSE Friends helps people understand what is happening underneath behaviour, pressure and conflict, then find calmer ways through.
No shame. No perfect parenting. No blame. No complicated jargon.
Just practical emotional safety support people can use in real life.
What you get inside the community
As a SENSE Friends member, you get:
simple weekly prompts
practical scripts for parents, carers and professionals
hot window support for repeated hard moments
calm explanations of behaviour and emotions
support around school stress and communication
space to reflect without judgement
ideas for repair after difficult moments
tools for transitions, mornings, bedtime, school pressure and after-school overwhelm
shared language that can travel between home, school and community
a community of people who understand
Investment
£9 per month
A low-cost monthly space for parents and carers who want practical support, clearer language and calmer ways through the moments that keep repeating.
How to join
You do not need the perfect words, a diagnosis or the whole story mapped out.
Just begin with one sentence:
“The moment that feels hardest right now is…”
Email Naomi
Send “SENSE Friends” to hello@thehrologist.co.uk.
Receive the joining details
You’ll be sent the next steps for joining at £9 per month.