Get Unstuck This Month

A 4‑week, high‑touch install for parents stuck in autism/ADHD waiting lists (assessment, CAMHS, EHCP, school support), so home gets calmer while the system catches up, and you feel back in charge.

Who this is for

This is for you if:

  • you’re stuck waiting (school/CAMHS/EHCP/assessment) and nothing is moving

  • your home is running too hot: repeated blow‑ups, refusals, shutdowns, battles, exhaustion

  • you want calmer stability, not more theory

  • you’re ready to implement a simple plan daily (10 minutes)

  • you want high‑touch support and you can invest £297/per month

What we’ll change in 4 weeks

By the end of the month you should have:

  • One predictable hot window (mornings / after‑school / screen‑off / bedtime) that is measurably calmer

  • A repeatable Bridge Routine (DO/SAY) that holds on hard days

  • A simple evidence log (2 minutes/day) that protects you in school/health conversations

  • A set of scripts for chasing, meetings, and boundaries (without shame spirals)

  • A calmer repair loop after rupture (so hard moments don’t poison the whole day)

What’s included

  • 1 x 60‑minute Unstuck Mapping session (your current reality + what’s stuck + fastest lever)

  • 2 x 30‑minute follow‑ups (implementation + tweaks)

  • Light-touch voice note support (Mon–Fri) for in‑the‑moment scripting and resets

  • Your written Hot Window Plan (one page)

  • Your written System Scripts Pack (one page)

Optional extras:

  • Home-school communication pack

  • Home-care professional communication pack

The method (simple, trauma‑informed)

We work in this order:

  1. Safety (context): reduce triggers and threat cues

  2. Regulation (state): stabilise the nervous system first

  3. Reflection (learning loop): sense-making without blame

  4. Skill (capacity): only then do skills/routines stick

  5. Outcomes: calmer days, faster recovery, less conflict

What this is not

  • Not a diagnosis service

  • Not legal advice

  • Not “perfect parenting” pressure

  • Not a generic resource dump

Investment

£297 per month (3 month minimum term)

One slot available each month (high‑touch support).

Next step

If you want to check fit, message me UNSTUCK and tell me:

  • your child’s age

  • your main stuck point (school / health / both)

  • your hardest hot window (morning / after‑school / screen‑off / bedtime)

If 1:1 isn’t right for you financially right now, you can still follow the free tools and scripts I share regularly. Join our email list for regular free tools and information.

We offer a number of pro-bono opportunities per year too.